I'm not psycho... I just like psychotic things. ~Gerard Way

The last couple of days have been a bit weird. But, I guess you find out people's true colors over time.

I was starting to get red flags flash up from Jagdish. Here are some of the things that threw some flags... First, on Tuesday I was at Mark's house for practice. I didn't make it to work on time that day...as usual....but this time I made a post that my kids were waiting for me and they were all concerned about me getting fired for being late all the time. Understandable....sometimes, I'm concerned about that...but mornings are very hard for me for several reasons. Not good reasons that I shouldn't take control over...but reasons that I haven't dealt with yet. So...he saw that I was late to work. Jagdish seems to be the type of guy that plays by the rules and is very structured. Those of you that know me....KNOW that I am in no way structured...and I usually push any limits that are set for me. We were chatting through IM on my phone while I was practicing and it was getting late. He started to tell me to go to bed and giving me this full on lecture. Ummmm...I already have a father and he doesn't really tell me what to do. Seriously. So...needless to say....I left when I wanted to and went to bed when I wanted to. The next day, Wednesday, he asked me if I was at work on time. I said yes, that I was (even though I was my usual few minutes late) and he said....you ready for this..."well, at least you did something good today" LOL...really, like the only good that I do in my day is to get to work on time. That that is the only good that I'm capable of doing. FUNNY...how about teaching the hellians at school, or helping my coworker with a project, or doing some of my laundry (now that's a biggie)....I mean really....how arrogant of a statement. Then he got upset with me for meeting Adi again. I was chatting with him while I was on my way to meet Adi at the movies and he got perturbed that I was seeing Adi again. (Which went very well, btw and will tell about in a bit) At least I was being honest and told him of the other people that I have been dating....crazy.

So last night at 11ish I got a text from him...I should of replied stop texting me you are going to make me late for work...he must of seen on my facebook status that Adi and I had a good time and that Adi wants to be exclusive...here is what our conversation was through texts.... Jagdish is Red and I'm Green

"So now u and adi bf gf?"
"No, not yet. He wants to be but to me its too soon to be exclusive. We've only seen each other twice."
"So my dream to marry u is shattered?"
"Is it? You have already claimed me as yours and we haven't met. I don't understand that logic."

"True....I am just stupid."
"I didn't say that. And you don't say that."
"But its the fact. U end up with adi and i end up with my stupidity..."
"Really? What says when I meet you that you don't make me forget all about Adi? Yes, I really like him...but I know him. I don't know you. Good night. Enjoy your day off tomorrow."

Then....on my facebook about 30 minutes later he has posted the following message on my facebook wall.

Sonya wrote to Jagdish (the guy from Denver who likes Mangoes), "What says when i meet you that you dont make me forget all about Adi? Yes I really like him...But i know him. I dont know you"
So Sonya, I want to make it very clear. I am not here to waste my time on proving you that i am better than Adi. I am too old to play these kind of games but i wish you a very happy married life with Adi....

So, I politely replied back on his wall with this message.

All I have to say is wow...Obviously you are not. I'm not playing games and I'm sure as hell not going to pledge my heart and soul to someone I haven't met. Lol, really Jagdish...obviously you are looking for more of a business transaction than true love. You should try a mail order bride service. Hope that works out for you.

Then I woke up to this message...lol

Sonya, with due respect, You have converted your "dating" scene into reality TV show where you are the center of attraction and guys have to fight for you.....You are telling that Adi is very sweet but at the same time you are telling me, "What says when i meet you that you dont make me forget all about Adi?"So you want to have Adi around and at the same time you want me to hang around and i am sure that there will be some more guys whom you want to hang around.Well.......I dont want to make you forget about Adi. I want you to remember and be with him for rest of your life...I hope that you two guys enjoy your time...Best of Luck
(i will not see or reply to any of your messages. It was nice to know you though)

WOW...interesting interaction. I have learned several things from this interaction with Jagdish. First, when a guy starts saying that he is wanting to propose to you and you haven't even met yet...run. Second, do not let them be your friend on facebook. Third, I do not want someone to tell me what to do. And...there's a few other lessons...but I won't discuss those.

So...this is goodbye and adios. Jagdish...I wish you the best and hope that you find what you are looking for. I do believe that, yes, you do have to prove to me that you are better. You have to prove to me that you are better than every single guy that will ever come into my life. You have to prove to me that you are the man that I deserve. Obviously you are not wanting to put work into a real relationship and you want someone to just agree to marry you without getting to know you. Therefore, I highly suggest that you find a mail order bride or some other kind of "business" oriented relationship with a woman to find you a wife. Because what you are wanting is just that.

ENOUGH OF THAT...Let's talk about the good stuff.... ADI!

So, I told you guys about what happened with Adi and that I agreed to give him a second chance. We decided to meet half way at Atlantic Station to watch a movie. We met on Wednesday because he had to go out of town yesterday and he wanted to meet before he left. He ended up getting "lost" on the way there...so we missed the movie. I don't know if that was planned or not...I wouldn't put it past him. We decided to walk around Atlantic Station, despite the cold and drizzle...he's never been there. I was freezing...so I didn't mind snuggling up to him while we were walking. There's not much to look at or do after 10:00 there...so we made our way to the Fox Sports Bar. We found an area to sit and chat. I was freezing so he curled me up and wrapped me up using himself...which was nice and toasty. We stayed there for about an hour and chatted then he walked me back to my car...which we stayed and talked for another hour. He was the perfect gentleman. He kept giving me little kisses on my neck and tickling me with his scruff that he's grown on his face (which I love). He was the perfect gentleman and never tried to kiss me on the lips. He had stated that we can wait a whole year before he tries to kiss me...I told him that wouldn't be necessary...but for him just to be patient.

He asked when he would be able to call me his girlfriend. How long would it be before we were exclusive? I'm not sure about this. I'm not talking to anyone else now....since Jagdish turned into a jerk and Kamran (lithia springs) is too dangerous for me to meet. I really do like Adi, though. I told him for us to continue seeing each other and just see how it goes. He, also, asked for me to go to Savannah for the weekend with him. (Ahem...does this scenario sound familiar??) I just laughed at him and told him that us staying in a hotel room together was not going to happen. He asked for me to think about it and that nothing would happen in the hotel...hmmmm.....I do love Savannah.