I am going insane. I think tomorrow I am going to take an "insanity relief day"....I have had many questions about what is going on with the POF guys. Well, let's see, it's been awhile since I've updated on here...where to begin....
22 Year Old @ Starbucks: I met this guy on Saturday after a night out dancing for Michelle's birthday. Probably wasn't the smartest idea. I got home at 4:30 in the morning and then was up at 9 to meet him at 10. (By the way I had a blast for Michelle's birthday weekend...will tell later). I really wasn't looking forward to meeting this guy cause he was already getting on my nerves...for example....every time we would talk he wouldn't have much to say other than asking me questions like: "Are you glad I called?" "Are you glad I texted you?" I mean really....I don't know him yet to be excited about him...we've barely had conversation and I'm not that desperate to be overly excited that he texted me to say "hey, what you doing?" Then he asked me if I was "happy to meet him on Saturday" and I of course responded with "of course, I love meeting new people"...he didn't like that response. But, he was annoying me with all these "are you glad" questions. But, anyways...he seemed to be a nice guy and I wanted to make sure I didn't miss out on something...so I went ahead with the plans to meet him. So Friday night before out meeting he sent me a text while I was eating dinner for Michelle's birthday asking me how will he know it was me on Saturday...what I would be wearing.... That's a stupid question. First, I have no clue what I was going to wear (it happened to be exactly what I had on Friday night...just threw the same clothes on...hee hee) and we are meeting at Starbucks...how many other people are going to be there...really? So, I responded to his question with... "I look exactly like my pictures on POF." I mean really I have five pictures of myself on there....I think he should be able to pick me out of a small group. So, he then finished off our conversation with "what is your favorite drink at Starbucks..." I showed up at ten...I saw that his truck was there so I went on in. And there he was dressed in jeans and a polo...all shaven and nice. Which surprised me because when I clicked on his webcam one night and took a quick glimpse of him...his hair was really bushy and he had a rough beard thing going on...but for the date he cleaned himself up...thank goodness. He was standing at a table with his drink.....my favorite drink no where to be found. WTC... hello....at least buy me my drink and have it waiting on me if you already decided to buy you something. So, I said hello and then went to stand in line. We continued to make small talk over the next hour... It was really hard to carry a conversation with him...I felt like I was talking to one of my students. I finally got out of there...I was supposed to meet Michelle, Ben, and Ben's sister to go bowling at 12:30. I kept saying I needed to go and he kept starting up new conversations. I completely started to tune him out... I was just going "uh huh, sure, oh that's good..." until I realized he was telling me a story about the cell phone company that was trying to charge him $1,000 for something and when I said "oh, that's good" he looked at me weird and said "no it's not...that horrible." Oops. I finally got up and just started walking out. He followed me out and kept talking to me outside. I finally was like I REALLY have TO GO...and he went in for the hug and I shoved my hand out for the hand shake. And I was on my way. The next day he asked if I wanted to go out on another date and I told him that he was a nice guy but I wasn't interested...he asked if we could be friends and I said we'll see what happens...haven't heard from him since.
The Lithia Springs Guy: This guy I really liked. He was very smart and we had pretty good conversations. But, he stated that he couldn't have a relationship with me without doing the "sexy", lol. He said that his sex drive is too much that he wouldn't be able to control himself around me and that unless I was able to help him finish what I started (?) then we couldn't meet. Sadness...he was very cute and nice. He sent me a couple of pictures "advertising" himself. That was funny... I didn't know if I was supposed to be impressed or not. I showed a couple of other people to get their opinion...lol. The over all consensus was that it would do the job...I'll save you the details. So....we won't be meeting. We still talk from time to time on Instant Messenger....but that won't be happening.
Jagdish from Denver: This guy is very nice. I'm excited to meet him. He sent me flowers last week to my work. They were beautiful. First time a guy gave me flowers besides my daddy. I have talked to him almost every day. He is very smart and we seem to get along very well. He is planning on coming down in a few weeks to see me. I can't wait till we meet.
Adi from Alpharetta: Well, I finally met Adi. He was the guy that got stuck in NC with the snow storm we had about a month ago....then he had the flu the next time we were supposed to meet, then the Monday night we were going to meet for dinner he ended up having to work late...and so we FINALLY met this past Saturday. I met him at 5 at North Point Mall. We walked around for a few minutes making small talk...but he seemed to run out of things to say, so he just kept saying "I don't know what else to say except that you look amazing (or sometimes he would change it to you look awesome)". When he walked up to me and as we were walking... I noticed that he kind of smelled weird and I wasn't sure if it was beer that I was smelling or just a bad cologne. We ended up going to this really nice Indian Restaurant called Tadka
I decided to just ride with him in his car because he said the restaurant was 10 minutes away and we've been talking for over a month so I felt comfortable around him. We got to the restaurant...and the food was amazing. While we were there...our conversation was kind of slow but you could tell that he was quiet and shy. He confessed that he had some friends over earlier and that he had six beers with his friends. SO that means that he was intoxicated and driving me around. NICE. Then we left there and he didn't want the date to be over yet....so he wanted to go to a sports bar and sit and talk for awhile. When we got there we were taken to a booth where he proceeded to sit right beside me. Within five minutes he had the arm around me. He asked me while I was being so quiet and I explained to him how I'm usually quiet and that it takes me a while to open up...and that it would just take time for me to feel completely comfortable with him. So then he proceeded to hold my hand...he said that would help us connect better so I wouldn't feel so uncomfortable, lol. Ummm hmmmm..... He did the whole, "I'm a palm reader and let me read your palm" trick...whatever....he said that I would only get married once and that I would have one kid. I told him that he has to be mistaken cause I'm having five children....lol. Then he started playing with my hair. At this point he was making me feel a little bit uncomfortable. He had his arm around me, playing with my hair, holding my hand with the other hand, and leaning over me to face me face to face. I kept trying to give him signals by moving further away, taking my hand back, telling him to stop playing with my hair that he was going to mess it up...but all didn't seem to work. Then he started to talk about my lips...and I knew the try for a kiss was coming. He started the whole...I can't believe that you have never kissed anyone before....and he went in for the kiss...I was quick and immediately turned my head and pushed him away. I told him that wasn't happening yet. He tried a couple more times while at the sports bar....he must of gotten tired of trying so he finally decided we should leave. So, we went back to his car and I told him that he should probably take me back to my car since I had an hour drive home. It was 830ish. He agreed and drove 35 miles per hour all the way back to my car...and all the way there he was playing with my hair and trying to hold my hand. At each red light he was coming over the console and begging for a kiss. We FINALLY made it back to the mall where he parked all the way in the back of the parking lot, no where near my car. He turned the car off and leaned over for yet another kiss...I mean really. I told him I needed to go....which he ignored. He this time kissed me on my cheek, then my forehead, and then my other cheek...and then right on the lips.... I tried to push him off of me but he was all the way across the console and right on top of me...I had no where to go. He tried his darnest to french kiss me. I just gave up pushing him off and just sit there waiting for him to finish. He must of finally realized that I was not responding and stopped... he set back in his seat immediately said he was sorry. I went on to explain to him that I did like him but that I needed to take it slow...and that I wasn't ready to kiss him yet. And when I say no....I mean no. He seemed to be very upset with himself, and kept apologizing. I finally said that I needed to go and got out of the car.
He called and talked with me on Sunday apologizing, that he knew he acted like a pig. I told him that I had my reasons for going slower than most girls and that I wasn't going to explain all the reasons why...but that he needed to understand...and that if he couldn't do that, then we didn't need to see each other again. Since then he has stayed in touch checking up on me. Last night he asked if we could go out again. I told him only if he didn't act like a pig again, lol. He said that he promised, but he didn't know why I didn't like the kiss if I liked him. I explained a few things to him that really made him feel bad....I wasn't meaning too but I had to be honest with him and let him know why I am acting the way I am and that it wasn't because I was a prude. He immediately called me and was even more apologetic and said that he wouldn't kiss me for a year and that he would leave a lot of distance between us next time. Lol...I told him that probably wasn't necessary but he needed to back off a little. So, we are meeting again this Wednesday night for a movie after choir practice. I told him that next time if he acted like that I wasn't going to be so nice about it that I was going to kick his ass, lol.
Okay, so let me tell you about Michelle's birthday weekend. We had so much fun...but I was exhausted by the time it was all over. On Friday night we met at Applebees and ate with her mom, mother-in-law, sister-in-law, sister, me, Amy, and Carrie. We then left there and Amy, me, and Michelle went back to Michelle's house to pick up her brother Gregory. We then went on to Flip Flops in Atlanta. We got there late and it was really crowded...so we didn't stay long. We had a few drinks and then left. I then took them to another place...which I have been sworn to secrecy where we went...but it is a place that I love to go to dance. It's a very cool, laid back place...with no worries. People just let you dance and you don't get every guy in the place rubbing themselves all over you....you can actually enjoy dancing. Gregory was being his usual goofball self which made the night a little more entertaining... especially his dancing....lol. (love ya Gregory). 
Let me tell you about the picture above....this is my favorite shot of the night. We were all dancing in a little group, minding our own business, when the black lady behind my left shoulder (in the right side of the photo) came up to Amy and started to dance on her. Like grinding on her... so being the momma that I am...I danced over and put myself in between the black lady and Amy and told the black lady to "Get off my bitch"....then I started dancing on Amy like she was my girlfriend. So, I love this shot cause it's showing Amy giggling and the black lady behind me. FUNNY! We closed the place down and headed to Krystals for a late night/early morning snack. After getting everyone back to Michelle's...I finally was home in the bed by 4:30.
Look how cute I am in the above photo....and I didn't get one phone call....lol. We then went to eat at Mellow Mushroom...by this time...I was about to pass out...but Ben had one more outing up his sleeve. We went roller skating at Starlite. Did I mention I can't skate? I fell only a couple of times. If it wasn't for Ben and a couple of my students that found me there helping me out....I would of probably have lived on the floor. 
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