Here is What I Know for Sure and Some Things I'm NOT So Sure About

People come and go into and out of our lives constantly.  No matter the size of their roles in our lives, they were there for a reason.  Some pass through quickly and others stay indefinitely.  Some are loose connections while others are deep loves.  The problem of it all is that we don't let things be the way that they should.  The problem is when we don't allow those to leave that should, allow those to stay that are supposed to, or try to make something be that it's not.  People throw around so many different emotions and terms so frequently, that we often don't allow ourselves to "see" what is true and real about those relationships.  We are shown through circumstances, instincts, and signs who is to stay, who should go, who to be open to, who to close off, who to pass by, who to stay with for awhile, who to hold onto forever and never let go.  We hurt ourselves and others when we manipulate the circumstances, ignore the signs, and push away our instincts....just so we can try to hold on to and have that relationship.  We, of course, can do the same in order to end a relationship that should not end.

Maybe because it during this particular time of month for me, I am just being extra sensitive, if you get my drift.  However, I want to make sure that in my life I let go of what needs to be let go of and hold on to what should be held.  I want to give importance to the ones that deserve that significance and learn what I should.

I have a friend that I have never met in person, Jagdish.  I have written about him before...used to be in the negative.  He does not see the world as I do and says things in such a blunt way that often makes us bunt heads.  However, he is one that always, if I want to hear it or not, is going to give me his honest opinion and tells me exactly what he thinks.  Tonight, we got to talking about life lessons.  We were talking about taking control of the issues in our lives step by step and how all the tough times in our lives teaches us something.  I agreed with him when he stated that we will continue to have the same kind of situation come back into our lives over and over till we learn the lesson that we need to learn.  I am having one of those moments, hopefully I will learn the lesson this time so I don't have to have it keep returning back to me.  I hope that I will learn the lesson of not trying to make what is not suppose to be...be....and allow what should go....go.....what should stay.....stay.....and know the wisdom of which is which.