How did the date go?

So, I keep getting the question...how did the date go? Well, it didn't. Supposedly his flight on Sunday morning never left NC due to the weather. Which...I guess I can believe. However, there were a few conversations that occurred before our meeting that could of deterred him from coming to meet me.

For example, he kept wanting me to come and meet him (before our scheduled date) at different places in Alpharetta (where he lives) because he couldn't wait to meet me. However, it was always at the spur of the moment and late at night. First, anyone who knows me know that as soon as I get home if i don't have to go back out...I head straight for the shower then put on my pajamas. I let the hair dry naturally and go crazy...no need to fix it and no need to put a face on. So, of course I never would actually meet him.

Then the day before our scheduled date, I saw that he added some provocative pictures that showed off his body on his profile. The only reason that someone would post "sexy" pictures of yourself is if you were interested in something "sexy". Well, I'm not interested...or I guess I should say not gonna do "sexy" till I'm married. So, this worried me a bit. This guy has been a total gentleman so far and hasn't been inappropriate at all...we've had great conversations....and even though we haven't had the religion talk and he states that he is non-religious...he has stated that he was going to a church. I know a lot of Christians that would say they were non-religious because of the stigma that goes along with saying you are religious. So, I wasn't too worried about that yet. So, when he put these photos up...it surprised me a little and unnerved me.

I began to wonder if I should confront him before we met about my boundaries before we both wasted time in meeting each other. Ben, Michelle, and Greg agreed with me that if he put those type of pictures on his profile they are for a reason. So, I decided to ask Christopher. Christopher looked at the photos and agreed that if would be a good idea to let him know of my boundaries before we met. So, I sent him a text and started up a conversation. Then, I switched the conversation over to his profile and it went something like this:

Sonya: "I noticed that you added some pictures to your profile. They are a bit provactive. I want to make sure you understand that I am not looking for a sexual relationship. I'm saving that for marriage. If you don't want to meet I understand. I just want to be up front with you."

Adi: "Those pictures are for showing off my body, when you'll meet me you can easily make out what kind of guy I am, all I can say is my pictures can be deceiving. I understand what you are saying and I still want to meet tomorrow for lunch."

Then Sunday morning....I get a message saying that his flight did not make it out of NC and he won't make it to Atlanta in time for lunch. I haven't heard from him since. Was that a clean break??

Plus, I think I must be doing something wrong on the site. When Tanya was monitering it she was getting all kinds of contacts from people. Then as I took over...I had a few good opportunities...but they all went dead.....sadness....either I am cursed or I'm doing this all wrong.

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